Do you go through your SO’s phone??🤔

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My boyfriend likes to go through my phone often... he tries to be sneaky BUT I KNOW! Lol i don’t mind I have nothing to hide. 
Though I myself never go through his phone I trust him a lot. But lately him checking my phone so often has rubbed off on me causing me to think about his phone and checking it?? So I take a peek but then realize I’m overthinking🤪 
Tell me your thoughts??? 
(Also I brought up the fact that my bf goes through my phone a lot and whether he trusted me? After this he barely looks.)

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Personally I feel it’s an invasion of privacy and if you are going through it that it shows a lack of trust especially if you have to be sneaky about it.

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Phones aren't a private thing in my relationship. Some people treat them like a diary with thier deep dark secrets, but in my house thier more like a shared family computer in the hallway. Just use whichever one is closer 🤷🏼‍♀️
That being said, I've never rifled through his texts or internet history or whatever. As much as I love my husband, he's as boring as a piece of printer paper. There's nothing to waste time looking at on there unless I suddenly develop a love for truck parts

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I do not and I would not be with someone who did

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If there's nothing to hide then why not. We don't look through each other's phones but if I'm using his I'll browse his texts with family to see what they're up to🤷 like another comment said people treat them like a diary. It's just a device. Now obsessively looking through every little thing on your SO's phone all the time with some goal or intention of finding something is crazy.

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If you have nothing to hide then there should be no issue going through each other's phones. My husband and I know the passwords to each other's... he can go through it if he wants. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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We’re both allowed on each other’s phones and both have each other’s passcodes and fingerprint locking system on each others phone too! It’s all free and out there, he’s allowed on mine whenever he needs it and he lets me go on his whenever I might need it. That has worked for us

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I did but only because I had valid reasons. It was also a good thing that I did because now I’m leaving his sorry ass. He told me he was going to work on Wednesday (his day off) to pick up extra hours for me and his son. Long story short he never went to work. He said he went to his “dads house”. I asked him when he was ever going to tell me and he said never. He was going to make up another lie when the extra money didn’t show up on his check. I check his phone this morning and find a secret porn Snapchat where he is paying people for nudes and videos. He was talking to men and women. When we got together we both AGREED that porn is a form of cheating. So he had been cheating on me since November of 2018 until September 2019. Long story short, he was always a pos, a Gaslighter, verbally abusive, and physically abusive. This just sealed the deal for me.

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Whenever i feel like it lol

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When I have text messages my husband can open my phone and respond back with what I want to say if he closer to my phone than I am and im too lazy to go get it. He doesn’t ever just look through my phone. The only time he touched my phone other than for text messages is to look up something or show me something on social media. I never touch his phone. We are very open about every aspect of our lives but we also give each other space when it comes to our phones. I would talk to your partner about it and since you so obviously know he’s doing it if he denies it hes lying and the trust aspect of your relationship does not exist.

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I have, not proud of it. Haven’t done it in a while and don’t plan on it anytime soon. I’ve told him about it when I’ve done it and apologized and he always says I can look at it if I want to.
But I don’t really want too! I’m just insecure sometimes and human and make mistakes.
Lmao and he calls me snoopy 🤣

Do you go through your SO’s phone??🤔

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