Mil rant😔

So my in-laws are absolutely crazy people, particularly my Mil. Long story short, my hubby and I haven't spoken to her in over 2 years. She lives across the globe and had come over last year and again this year to meet "her" family, aka brother, Sil, niece, nephew, grandnephew and her own mother. She was trying to use some family members as flying monkeys to get my hubby to connect with her. She didn't have the balls to contact him herself. So here are the few reasons why we stopped contact with her and her family

1. I had a fracture, 2 years back, my mom informed her that she was coming here to take care of me. She checked on me for like 2 weeks and then blocked me and my hubby on Whatsapp because my hubby told her to stop sending us forwards while he was busy taking care of me by himself. She decided to show how much she actually cares. She never checked on me after that if I was ok or not. My FIL periodically sent emails to check on me, other than that NOTHING.

2. When I got married, I only spent like 3 days with her and I saw the really crazy side of her. She commented on my name meaning to be darkness and saying things like in which house does MIL work and DIL sit. Mind you all I was newly married and just spent 3 days with her and she said all this shit to me.

3. When my hubby and I went on our honeymoon, he was sunburned and instead of worrying about her son, her demand was that he should sponsor her and her husband a trip, basically she wanted to go on a "honeymoon"😂 and then she emotionally blackmailed that she taught him to walk with her fingers and what not. Like who the fuck asked her to bring him into this world? It was HER decision. For her relation is like Balance sheet

4. When my hubby got his first bonus after marriage I told him to inform her and the first thing she said was give me the money since she I spent on the wedding! Like seriously?! No one fucking asked her spend on her son's wedding and she went around gifting people like crazy which was uncalled for.

5.To top it all she is a liar. My hubby had student loan she lied to everyone that he is making her pay it all when in fact he paid it all by himself including undergrad and grad. She even told him that his father had a heart attack when he later found out, that his dad just had a mere chest Pain!

My hubby keeps saying she doesn't exist

and not does his dad. I feel bad for him but i guess some parents are just users.

Am I thinking too much to think she is a narcissist, manipulative, crazy biatch?