I know they say only invite those you want there and thats all that matters but wanting to avoid family friend drama is hard because I know ill hear it later. Id honestly rather invite them and get gifts from them than deal with the drama if they arent invited and also because I know a lot of people dont show up. I feel like its bitchy about the gift part but honestly a few extra people and more gifts or drama later. It is stressful to think about who it might be okay to not invite but knowing it could end bad if they arent would be shitty. F..... these things are hard.