What do you girls do if you're insecure about a girl in your SO's life?

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Currently in a weird situation where I have a weird gut feeling but very little to back up my reasoning. Its just this one girl, my SO has plenty of other girl friends, some I've met, others I haven't. But it's just this one girl, never met her, that he works with that just doesn't sit well with me. IDK what to do about this ugly green monster, help please.

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Stay strong dear we went through this once before. It’s so hard to believe in someone when you’ve been hurt before.

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What I’d advise: Talk to him. Tell him that you’re uncomfortable with the situation and see what happens. If he actually cares about you, he’ll find a way to support you. 
What I actually do (when it’s a problem—it rarely is): Shut down, get very quiet, and try very badly to hide the fact that something is bothering me until my SO stops everything and asks me what’s wrong. 
I’d advice against the second one, though. It gets annoying for both parties involved 😅

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Honestly if you have a gut feeling that something is up THEN SOMETHING IS UP. now this might sound a bit crazy but pull up to his job on a day you know he’s not working, go in a disguise observe her from a distance and see how she interacts with other people (guys) that she works with and this should either confirm ur concerns or assure u that it might be nothing...

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Throw her away...

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Try and talk to him and hopefully he takes your concerns seriously. With my ex I tried to explain my concerns with him and he completely ignored me. The person I’m with now listened to my every word and assured me so now I don’t care about this girl anymore. He was honest with me to the point where there is no more doubt. I hope it works out for you. I know it can be hard

What do you girls do if you're insecure about a girl in your SO's life?

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