Last week I got mad at my boyfriend because I’m pregnant and he went out and didn’t come home until 3am. We had an argument ; however he was gone since 11am and didn’t text me at all.

I’m 37w4d pregnant and I’m just over constantly having to talk to him about being respectful about being out late and not telling me shit.

We talked and he thinks it’s ok because he doesn’t go out like that. WHICH I understand, but fuck we have a baby on the way and after awhile you should be able to go out and come home at an appropriate time.

Today, we had a second baby shower thrown by friends. Of course he was drinking and I could tell he didn’t want to leave. Normally we drive together but today we didn’t... we got there at 2, and I got tired. I left at 9:30pm, but I could already tell but how much he was drinking and kept walking off with his friends he was going to stay and hang out longer. I asked him what time he plans on being home and he said the latest 12am.

Like I said he doesn’t go out at all but when he does he feels like he can be out past 2am and there’s no fucking reason when I’m home, we have a baby on the way, and everything closes at 2am. We had issues in the beginning of my pregnancy with him coming home drunk, and being out til 2:30am etc. Once I got on his ass, and left to stay with my parents for my awhile he stopped.

Anyways, I told him this week I don’t mind him going out and hang out every once in awhile, but damn if you been out all day, learn to come home at an appropriate time. I feel like if you’re in a serious relationship, or married you shouldn’t feel the need to be out the entire night. Ugh

Have any of you ladies had to deal with this ?? I hate feeling controlling but I feel like he’s not respecting me, or relationship, and the fact we have a baby on the way.

***UPDATE:

He got home at 1:45am and was beyond drunk. His friend that he was with called me and was even worried about him. He told me he was trying to get him to stay and drink water but whatever. He’s a grown ass man and should’ve kept his word and should’ve be drinking like that ! He didn’t talk all day today. I stayed in the bedroom, and he’s been in the living room. The only thing I said today was that I want him to move out and he said ok...other than that we haven’t talked all day.

He’s never going to change. Last night he said sorry, 20 minutes it’s so what if I’m a little late. I refuse to raise a baby with this man even if we were together for 8 years....