We’ve been apart for a little over a month now. He got his own place I stayed with the house we were renting together. He has a very good income, he offered to pay me xxxx amount a month to stay home with our baby and he pay the rent, my phone, our groceries, and car note. I’m beyond blessed; I always knew I chose a good one that’s why I pictured forever with this man. He’s not perfect, obviously that’s why he decided we go our separate ways. During our split we had just found out we got approved for a home loan to start building our forever home. We both have a few month left in our lease but he mentioned what if he buys a house and we live it in, all together. I didn’t want him to leave in the first place our house now has 2 extra bedrooms but he wanted to move out. I’m so confused. I have one more semester left to get my bachelors I know he wants me to finish (i really want to finish) and he wants to help me open up my own office right after. He tends to throw things to my face when he’s mad like all the expensive things he buys me what great of a life I have because of him etc. I’m just scared, I’m confused. To be honest now that we’ve been apart for this long I don’t know if I want us to be a couple. I don’t know if moving in together gives him that idea. Of course, I want my family to be together but being separated reminded me of why we weren’t as happy as we once were. Idk what to do.

I might be posting this in two groups because I would really like peoples opinion and/or experiences.