So I’ve been talking to this guy and we’ve gotten really close. He lives far away so it’s online that we talk. Lots of Skyping involved.

I’m really confused about my feelings. At first I was kinda just talking with him to get my emotional need filled and then I’d keep a look out for a guy that’s in my area.

But now I’m actually starting to find this guy attractive (I always liked his personality, just not his appearance) and I think ab him a lot during the day..

We act like we are in a relationship but we don’t label it. He said from the beginning that we should just go with the flow and see what happens. He wouldn’t want to label it cuz then it makes it too serious...

But overall I am looking for a bf and I do actually like this guy a lot. So idk if I should just keep my initial plan of just talking until I find someone closer.... or if I should try to make it actually work with this guy.

Idrk how serious he actually is ab this. He says he is and we even made it known we wouldn’t talk to other people or anything. So he seems serious but idk if he’s lying or not basically haha.

We talk ab him coming to where I am for a week to meet up and stuff. Not for a while though. I’m just so confused rn and I’m worried I’ll actually get attached to this guy while he’s just playing around.

(Also when I had my “first/initial plan” , it was way in the beginning of talking when it was just casual and he knew I was talking to another guy as well. Since then I’ve only been talking to him and he knows that too)