Hi Ladies,

I have been seeing this guy after I got divorced.. And its been amazing with some ups n downs. He is a little younger then I am but we go so good together. Some months ago he moved in with my kids and I. I have 2 kids.. a little boy 6 and and a little girl 4. He is amazing with kids. My son is still a little defensive about him but I see them getting better. But a couple of days ago my husband (their father) confronted my new guy...And he decided to leave us after that encounter...and we haven’t spoken for 4 days now.. I am feeling very down about the situation and don’t have anyone to talk to..

I don’t understand how he can just walk away... I confronted my Ex and he said he just wanted to see who is kids were spending time with.. I agree tht he has a right to know but there is a way n place for that.

I just feel so broken cause I really miss this guy.. He made me feel safe. I am terrified of my ex thats the reason I left.

I am feeling so down right now :( I have just been holding in all these feelings..

I do have family near by but they all seem to think it was a mistake that I left my husband.. So i prefer to suffer alone

Hope you ladies can give me some support

Thank you in advance.

Update..

I decided to reach out to him instead of waiting for him to reach out to me.. I send him the below pic

And he responded...

After a while he send me a app to come pick him up and then deleted it.. send it again and then deleted.. 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ I was like.. I am coming for you right now.

(He had a motorcycle accident 2 weeks back and doesn’t have any transportation at the moment)

I picked him up.. we didnt even speak.. we got to my place n we just cuddled the entire night.. this morning we didnt want to let each other go but we had to get up for work 😭😭 still dnt know what it means because barely any words were exchanged