My husband and I are a Christian couple and we have recently done marriage counseling with our pastor.. our pastor is always preaching about how porn is detrimental for your marriage.. Well I know my husband still watches it.. since he travels for work and is only home maybe 1-2 days a week.

I also recently became aware of my husbands college buddy adding him to a private group in Facebook messenger where the guys share videos of women twerking; or/and with their breasts and vaginas hanging out, or it’s straight porn videos and then they make comments on it like I’ll handle her or I’ll eat that.. just disrespectful toward women in my opinion. But the other thing that bothers me is our son plays on my husbands tablet, which is logged into his account and he has clicked on the msgs when the notification comes up on the top of the screen.

So my question is how would you feel about this or address it? Am I being irrational for being upset?