family not supportive of baby daddy...

hi i’m 21.

my boyfriend and i have been through A LOT. don’t want to get into too much detail but we’ve been through a lot and my family doesn’t like him. understandable with the things he’s done to me. but we are now having a baby together and trying to work things out. but my family still seems to not look past everything and try to accept him. it’s effecting me because i want things to work out with my boyfriend for the sake of our baby. he wants to be there 100%. and all my family wants to do is talk shit and judge me. i know they love me and care for my safety but it just sucks and i wish things were different.. idk what to do. i’m so stressed and just want to enjoy this pregnancy but i feel like i can’t. help😭