I need advice

Hi ladies I need some advice so last year I graduated after just having my baby girl who was born early with trisomy 21 and a heart defect. she spent about a month in the Nicu while I was finishing up my last semester , I drove back and forth and hour to campus for exams and had my work sent to me, I did everything such as my studying and homework while in the Nicu all day until my husband to come get me or visit. So for I’ve been a stay at home mom for about a year now it was necessary the first 8 months because she ended up having surgery. After I could go back to work I’m just attached to my baby and confused about what I want to do and who I am and became unmotivated I focus more on my husband and daughters need. Within these 6 months I found out my husband cheated, we separated for a short time and now we’re trying to reconcile with counseling and salvation but all ik is this was an eye opener. I can’t put my life on hold for him anymore

. But I’m still confused on what’s my next step.

I think I want a fresh start in a new city I only moved back to my hometown because of his business , hes just grateful I forgave him so he’s willing to go wherever I go but I have to think about trusting strangers with my one year old who has special needs and transfer all her doctors and therapies.

But I also have a small business, I could focus more on that but I’d still be in the house all day with a baby so that really doesn’t help me find friends or and identity.

My 3rd option is to find a successful career here but just be miserable for the time being until my daughters old enough to go to school and communicate and then we can move