Might get hate for this but oh well 🤷🏼‍♀️

Long long long

FIL moved with us a month or so ago

I donthate him and I am pregnant so it might be hormones too lol

My fil moved with us and we have lived with him before we got this place four years ago. He expect my SO to buy his cigarettes, buy his food, he will even open my SO cigarettes and smoke them without even asking and when something gets said to him he just says “ok you won’t have to worry about me no more” like threatening us that he will leave 🙄? He gets paid once a month and blows it on pills and buys himself food when my SO is at work. I just don’t think it’s fair. He can sneak out and buy his own food when he has money but we will be starving . But when he doesn’t have money he’s expecting us to buy him food every single time we go out. He doesntbuy my SO cigarettes but expects them. He doesntpay rent or anything for us. He just spends it all on pills to take (loratabs, Percocet) that’s why he doesn’t have a house he will pay 30$ per pill and get so fucked up.

We don’t have extra money as it is so we are struggling a lot we get a little bit of food stamps for us that we use on all of us to eat. Ever since he got here he wants us to make things we would never eat and complains when we make stuff we like for dinner. It’s nothing out of the way either (porchops, chicken, hamburger helper) what we can afford. He convinced my SO to get cable we haventeven paid first bill yet. We never had cable cause we knew we couldn’t afford it on our own. He says he’s gonna pay the whole bill but when he gets his money it’s a different story. Cause by that time he’s so fucked up. He blows his money in two days. I’m trying so hard to not say anything. He’s already got in a fight with my BIL AND SIL’ SO so that’s why he doesn’t stay with them even though they both can afford it more than we can. Getting to the point where he’s asking for money and cigarettes and gas every time my SO gets paid I don’t even wanna ask for anything cause I know by then my SO is broke. My SO needs to put his foot down as well and he does but his dad don’t care, like with the cigarettes. I hate to be hateful towards him cause I was always taught to respect your elders and all that and his dad helped us when we needed help when we didn’t have a home. I just feel like it will turn into a big fight between me and my SO cause he’ll think I hate his family when I don’t. I just gotta worry about me and also we have a three year old son.