Venting
So I’m just here to vent because I’ve already vented enough to my boyfriend about this and I guess I don’t really have anyone else to vent too. So I’ve recently moved in with my boyfriend about 4 months ago which was out of state. All my friends at the time were so happy for me and happy that I finally found someone and am in a healthy loving relationship. They all told me how they would come visit and we’d still be connected and still talk and hangout. Now I only moved an hour and a half away. I moved from Pennsylvania to West Virginia. And an hour and a half isn’t that far. Anyways I really miss my friends. None of them want to come see me and none of them want to make the drive. It’s always “why don’t you drive to me”. And honestly I wouldn’t have a problem driving to see them because I still come up to see my family. But none of them wanna drive here. And none of them really talk to me anymore. I don’t get much of a response anymore. I guess it kinda saddens me. And don’t get me wrong I love my boyfriend and I love spending time with him but I just would like to hangout with some friends at some point. Like have a girls day. And I can’t. Yes he does a lot of the things I wanna do and goes with me where I wanna go and I’m so grateful for that but I still miss having friends. And I don’t know anyone down here so it makes it hard to make friends down here. I’m trying to make friends with the girls at work but I’m still new so I’m hoping in time ya know. One of my friends at one point even made the comment “you have him now, you don’t need me anymore”. Which is so unfair to say because im still trying to stay in contact with my friends. I tried to make plans with that friends and she said she’d pass because she doesn’t like him or whatever. She’s never met him. Actually come to think of it only two of my friends have met him. And they both really liked him. He’s a like able guy. So I just don’t understand what I’m doing wrong that none of my friends wanna be like friends anymore. I’m the only one trying and it isnt working. I’ve just given up. Sorry for the rambling. Just needed to get that off my chest.
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