What would you do? Ladies I need some advice

So my bf and I are about to move in together in about a month from now. We’ve been looking at bed frame, furniture, talking about our plans and just being excited. He’s paying for all of the furniture and we are looking together. I asked him to let me see any furniture he decides on before he buys it because I want to make sure that I like it as well. He agreed and said that’s fair.

So Monday he was supposed to order our bed frame and mattress. He did order it, but he didn’t tell me which ones he ordered until after the fact and they were in the complete opposite direction of what I had picked out and what we were going for and it was way more expensive (I was trying to stay cheap but have good quality). Of course I got upset because I feel like it wasn’t right for him to do that as he had already agreed to let me know which he decided on before purchasing and he got something completely out of the range of what we were looking for so it threw off my ideas. Before we initially started looking, he promised that he wouldn’t make me feel bad or rub it in my fact that I wasn’t paying for the furniture or anything like that. After I got upset, he started in on the jabs. “You’re not paying for it so shut the **** up” “Youhave no reason to complain it’s not YOUR money and YOU aren’t paying for it” “Shut the **** up. You’re so annoying. You’re ungrateful” “You aren’t paying for **** so just sit there and look pretty” so forth and so on and at this point I’m in tears and respectfully so because of what he’s saying. I was thankful and happy that I didn’t have to worry about paying for the furniture. I was just upset that he didn’t include me in it.

After this, we’re sitting silently on the phone and then all of a sudden he says he’s going to go and chill with his friends. I’m annoyed because he always does this. When we argue he wants to go chill with his friends and then the next morning it’s always something. So he’s out late for HOURS. I call him around 12ish to see where he was and see if he had calmed down and of course he answered with an attitude “why’re you calling me” “what do you want” “idk what time I’ll be back” “don’t wait up for me to call you” and idek what time he actually got back home and then the next morning he says that he doesn’t want to live with me anymore and that we’re not ready and that I need a car first (when he’s the one who actually insisted that we’ll be fine with one car for now while I was opposed to it) and that I need to save more and just two days prior we were excitedly talking about this and everything so I’m confused and idk what to do. He is going to be living an hr away and I’m not comfortable with that at all because the plan was for us to be living there together. Idk what to do. He’s not budging, he won’t change his mind he’s just indifferent to how this has affected me.

An old friend and I just got back into contact and as I’m telling her these things along with our recent troubles she feels that I should just leave and move on because of how he’s acting and the previous history. Any advice or comments would be appreciated.