Advice please. ☹

Yesterday hubby and I were trying to have sex , stupid shower sex.

Of course , I had to start it off like always. After I gave him head for a little we went to start having sex, I wasnt getting wet at all. He was pissed.

Got mad at me and started being negative. I got mad about everything he was saying so I said "i just got off my f****** period today, do your research on a vagina"

Then he turned around and said "No , do research on how your vagina is suppose to work during sex"

And after that I just felt like complete shit and all day I've been thinking about that conversation.

Am I in the wrong for what I said?

Is there something wrong with me down there?