So I’ve had some girls contacting me to let me know that my boyfriend has been hitting them up. And sometimes they have no proof so I take his side. But eventually it got to the point where it was like, how many people are really gonna make this up. You know? I asked him over and over again to just tell me the truth everything would be okay in the end if he just told the truth. He continuously denied it and he’s never lied before, and always came clean right away so I started to believe him. Just for safety I logged into his Snapchat (and I feel awful for this normally I would never do this) I found the girl who said that he had sent her something, I didn’t find any proof but their conversation was very “friendly”. I came across another Conversation where I found that he sent her a dick video of him cuming. I screenshots and confronted him, and he couldn’t even explain himself.

We are trying our best to work things out and get through this, just rebuilding the basic trusts and relationship. But he leaves for army bootcamp on November 12, and its putting a strain on the relationship. Although things are slowly getting better, I’m still afraid everything could go south again.