So basically me and my boyfriend have been in an official relationship around 2 years now, but we were friends (with benefits) for about 3/4 years before. A couple months after becoming official we found out I was pregnant. At first he was saying how he wanted me to have an abortion, wasn’t ready to be a dad etc. But I told him I was doing it with or without his help, and he was welcome to go. He chose to stick around and tell his mum, which is when he seemed completely different and wasn’t telling me to get an abortion anymore. We had our daughter and she is now 1 year and 3 months and I’ve found out I’m pregnant again! 13 weeks along. He is again telling me he wasn’t me to have an abortion and he doesn’t want another kid or to be a dad again🤷🏻‍♀️ I’ve given him the option of being there or going and he said I’m going to ‘fuck this little family up’ someone please tell me what to do?! I feel like I’m not as excited this time round as he hasn’t come to terms with it. My family know as I have bad morning sickness, so they knew before I even tested and they’re all happy and excited.

Advice please????