Too long?

Hi! Quick question, do any of you guys get embarrassed of your labia if it’s longer than normal? Mine is super long on one side and kinda normal on the other. It’s so bad that I won’t let my boyfriend do anything to me or see me naked until I have reduction surgery. I’ve wanted to get reduction surgery on it since I was 13 but I wanted to see what y’alls experiences were/are with it. Thanks!