I cheated on my guy -- yes, I'm a crappy person for it, I know. I already feel guilty as hell. Anyway, I went out to a bar (and I NEVER go out anymore, so it was a big deal for me), and got sloppy drunk and made out with a guy in the parking lot.

I'm not sure if someone saw me, but my man is thinking I slept with someone or something...he won't tell me what he thinks bc he wants me to "fess up" basically.

I've never cheated before, but I feel like if I told him, it would only make it worse. I don't know what to do. He's been working in the US Virgin Islands, so we've been apart for sometime.

Would you tell him, honestly? It's easy to say you would if you're on the outside looking in -- but putting myself in this situation has me thinking I should NOT.