so basically gonna keep it short. i’ve been of the pill for 5 months now and my boyfriend and i have had sex maybe 4 times and every time is really painful. i want it to be good and feel good but i find no pleasure in it and it kinda bothers him a lot and me too. no one seems to ever complain about the pain or not finding pleasure in it, why do i? we’ve tried lubes and condoms and no condoms and we usually stop quickly because i can’t handle the pain. we’ve tried many positions and it doesn’t work.