My Labia.. is long.

My whole life I’ve struggled with this. I don’t know what caused my labia to be so long? It’s only one side, and it’s long and kind of dark. It scares me to ever find a new partner. A few guys I’ve been with have brought it up and made me super insecure, some act like it’s no big deal at all.. but it’s ugly. I masterbated ALOT growing up, when I say a lot I mean ... a lot. I don’t know why I did it so much but my parents just let me.. i think it’s the reason for it. :/ But not sure if it even works that way? (Excessive rubbing) so I assume it works that way, although I know they say it just is how it is. I am considering labiaplasty in my future. I am only 18 but it’s something that’s bothers me my whole life.

My man I’m with right now, went down on me for 2 seconds and stopped.. hadn’t tried since and I think I disgust him. It makes me sad & I don’t want him to think I’m nasty or slept around because it isn’t the case at all.

How do you guys handle your long labia.. anyone in the same boat as me?