So it’s probably not my business to tell them anything since I don’t pay any bills there or live there but it’s so hard going over to their house and their dishes are piled up both sinks and trash, half eaten food on the dining table. It gets so bad I end up doing them and cleaning bc it’s so disgusting and ends up smelling. Everyone in the house works but not crazy hours where they can’t come home and clean and the embarrassing thing is this family is 17 yrs and up so literally ADULTS. To top it off the parents and my boyfriend are the only ones who contribute to buying groceries, they are a family of 6 not including his brother’s gf and I who tend to stay over sometimes, honestly this is more of a rant but has anyone ever experienced this!? How do you deal with it