Our sexlife is weird. Sometimes it could be great but sometimes is just plainly sucks. For example tonight, we were trying to have anal and didn't get very far. First off I want to say that there's no foreplay involve and I feel like this is the reason it gets boring. When we have sex it's straight to the business. There's no making out or licking the nips or biting my ass u know lil things here there to make the kitty wet. It's either I suck him off (which is alot of that) then sex or just the head. I don't get my kitty eaten or played with, sometimes I gotta bring out the vibrator just so I can cum. Tonight I spent almost two hours cleaning up for anal and for nothing because there was no fore play it was straight to business and I couldn't find myself relaxed enough to have him penetrate me, it was too painful, and I love anal sex. He just got turned off by it and went back to playing video games. I'm seriously sexually frustrated and idk what to do...