We’ve been together almost 5 yrs now since I was 16. I love him but I’m not in love with him. Is there a difference between love and in love? When we first met I was super attracted to him and now it’s kinda like he’s not ugly he’s just not as hot anymore idk sounds weird. I know what y’all rude ignorant ppl are gonna say he deserves better n blah blah blah. So if you’re gonna comment something like that don’t waste your time. Idk if this is a normal thing after you’ve been together so long or not. I don’t want to break up with him but like why would I fee like this if I actually did love him.

I read your comments and I don’t think I even like him at this point. We don’t do anything. In the four years we’ve been dating we never went on an actual date. We went to the mall once and went to Wendy’s once which ended in us having a huge fight in the parking lot because he lost his wallet and said it was my fault. I mainly not attracted to him anymore because he treats me awful he treats me more like a side chick than a girlfriend.