I just had our first little one back in July. I love nothing more than being a mama but I have been feeling ehh about myself.

With nursing him and starting a new birth control I haven’t felt my libido is dropped. My husband has a much higher sex drive and of course before we got pregnant we were doing it a lot. Now I just don’t feel it. 🙁

My husband told me he masterbates like multiple times a day to relieve stress and honestly I had no idea. He doesn’t really touch me or try to turn me on. I told him of course I’d be in the mood if he tried to be more romantic. The lack of being physical just makes me feel like maybe he doesn’t find me attractive? Because I have gained weight 😔. I’m working on eating healthy and working out but I’m just tired and feeling lonely. I’m glad he made sure I knew he wasn’t seeking other women but idk deep down with the way things are idk how long it will last...