So basically it’s my daughters birthday tomorrow, my family is very set on doing something on her birthday, I want to wait till the weekend. Today I find out they have a whole party planned, invited people and everything at this public restaurant tomorrow, and just expect me to show up with my daughter. I told them no, my husband works all day tomorrow and everything, and now they’re basically insinuating that he’s a bad father for not taking the day off work. He can’t just take days off like that, I don’t expect him to, specially with the kind of job he has. That’s why I wanted to do something this weekend instead, so it can be on his day off and he’d be there. They’re literally blowing my phone up about it, saying my husband doesn’t even have to be there for her party, etc.