Husbands?!?

Okay does anyone have husbands with addiction problems? I don't mean narcotics or opioids or illegal substances.. But my husband 'chews' chewing tabacco. And when he "gets up" in the night to "help me" it goes like this...

Me: hey, you said you'd get her.

Him: yea..

Me:(2 minutes Later):the baby Honey..

Him:yea.. (starts sitting up)

Me: (rubbing his back) hey you the baby is up..

Him:okay let me put a dip in...

Me:(baby screaming at this point):hey you..

Him:yea.. (gets up and puts on more pants) and starts to go to the bathroom. After that he starts warming up the bottle (1 minute tops) for her to eat and go back to bed.

10 plus Minutes just to get in to her room

Then there's me

Baby fusses on monitor

Me: shit... (rolls out of bed, puts on robe, heads to kitchen)

..... Waiting (1 minute tops) for water to heat up. Puts bottle in pocket to pick up baby with both hands. Feeds baby in under 10 minutes which is about the time it takes my husband to get up...

What's the deal???

What the hell...