How do I bring this up to him?

Am I the only one who gets insecure when their bf like makes a point of loving porn and stuff but never coming to me for anything?? Like he always masturbates and says it means nothing to him which hurts my feelings because he never comes to me and I hate being the one always initiating and I really hate when he like shows porn to his friends that he loves and I also see and I’m nothing like it and all I wanna do is cry because I’m not enough