Relationship advise from me to you

Listen ladies, I'm not saying that I have all the answers or whatever, or that my relationship is "perfect". However through time and relationships I know for certain one very important thing. Men are action driven and woman are verbally driven.

Here's what I mean, everyday I come on Glow and read about men cheating or woman not feeling good enough or what have you. I've been in toxic relationships and I've been in great relationships (currently married to my best friend and we have a great relationship). But through trial and error he's what I've learned. If a man loves and cares about you he will show you. (Not to say men aren't forgetful), but if you ask your boyfriend or husband or whatever to do.something or help you with something, and he does it you're a priority. Example hey babe when you get home or when you get a chance can you help me with... (Yes). Again not saying men aren't forgetful, but if you remind him and he puts that first your priority and He loves and cares about you. If his response is stop bitching, get off my back, I'd rather hang out with so and so, then guess what you're not that important. That's when the woman in the relationship what's to talk and communicate because that's how we dominantly show how we feel. And chances are he's not that going to want to talk about it. However if you say babe I feel like.....or we need to talk......or whatever and he says okay babe or talks back with you.....guess what he cares about you. Ladies it's really simple. Now I'm not saying I haven't had to remind my husband to take out the trash or get something from the store on his way home(some men have a hard.time multitasking) so if you remind him and he doesn't take it as you being a bitch or that youre complaining again, guess what he loves and cares about you. This may not be fool proof advice but I'd say it's a pretty good indication of your relationship. And no amount of you trying to "fix him" or talking about it or "trying to fix or change yourself(which is the dumbest shit ever) there's difference between compromise and changing everything about yourself to.mold into the image he wants. And there's a difference between working on each other to better improve the relationship and yourselves vs he doesn't like my hair blonde he likes red heads so I dyed my hair red(dumb dumb dumb dumb dumb) stop that shit. Know your worth ladies. Stop settling for a man who disrespects you and doesn't value you. Life is to damn short for that.

That is all.sorry it's so long.