just some ranting -no real questions

so this is a rant that is all over the place lol but i don’t really want to tell people i know 😅

so i’m hooking up with this guy (he’s 28 i’m 21) and it seems like he doesn’t really know what to do. like he’ll start rubbing me with underwear on, but with no real pressure- i have to put my hand on his and press it down to get some friction , and then after like 5/10min we will have sex. the sex is okay but it’s only missionary. i want him to actually finger me or do some other type of forplay and i want to have sex in other positions. i told him about it but nothing has changed! like i’ll tell him to go harder/faster and he does for like 3 seconds. but what really gets me is that he asked if i would do a 3some with him and other guy and i’d be down for that after we build more trust, but how the hell are you going to ask for a 3some and not have that much game!?? like we talked about what we were into and he said that he liked a little bit of bondage which I’m fine with then I told him what I was into and I feel like I’m into a lot more things( bondage, choking, ass play, slapping, etc) and I just feel like i’m a bit more experience than him and I don’t know how I like that. idk if he just doesn’t know what to do because i’m bigger and he is a pretty thin guy or what but like i didn’t know i could be craving to have sex while having sex 🙃