Would you be upset? (Long post)

My boyfriend and I are expecting a child in April, I’m 15 weeks. He has two other children from his ex wife. We have yet so announce, and we want to take and enjoy this pregnancy at our own terms. We only told, my best friend, both sets of my parents, his mother and his twin. He has another sister, but we chose not to share with her yet. She thinks she’s better than anyone and that her and her children are all that should matter to the family. We don’t like being judged (although we have nothing to be judged for), and we don’t want to listen to her.

None of my family or friend, has said a peep, not even to my brother. His twin and mother said they’d respect our wishes. We got a message from other said sister saying, “I’m feeling as if you aren’t telling me something big about your life”, and continuously hinting. She spent the weekend with other sister and Mom. We’re getting to the bottom of this tomorrow, but somebody spilled and we are truthfully and honestly very hurt.

We’ve both encountered several losses and this is the only baby I’ve been able to keep this long. That’s why we chose those whom we believe we trusted. We wanted to indulge and happily love this pregnancy on our terms, and announcing when we felt our hearts wanted to.

Would you be hurt? Or am I being dramatic?