Healthy child between two miscarriages question

Jessie

Well, I'm having my second miscarriage. My first was just over 3 years ago. I had my daughter a year and a half ago. Then I just miscarried. I know that they dont like to do testing until you've had 3 losses, but do those 3 losses have to be in a row? I just want to know that I dont have to go through this 2 more times to get answers.