Pubes???

Ummm so I’m a virgin, and a teenager. I don’t plan on having sex anytime soon but I’m still really self conscious about my pubes. They itch, I find them gross, but my skin is INCREDIBLY SENSITIVE. My hair thiqque down there, if you know what I’m saying. I’ve tried Nair, which can work, but leaves a lot of hair still there, and still causes burns and bumps. I’ve tried shaving with a brand-new razor, and exfoliating, and that was painful. I’ve watched about every “female grooming” video there is on YouTube, but I still can’t find something that works for my skin. Also, I’m a huge wimp and have an extremely low pain tolerance.