Maybe try for baby 3?

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Ok I’m gonna try to make this post not so long.. small backstory I always wanted a bigger family 3-4 kids but I have mild pcos which I found out in my 20s I got pregnant by fluke when I was 30 and have now have an 8year old we started trying to have baby 2 when he was 2ish and it took 5 years and 2 MC but finally had another LO about 6 months ago now after I had my 2nd I swore I was done! but now I’m not so sure.. I feel
Like I have baby fever again and I know my plate is super full with my other 2 but I kinda wanna try for baby 3...I was originally thinking of waiting the full year-18months (I’m also trying to finish school) but I’m nervous I might miss my window of opportunity, I should be more fertile PP and I’m turning 39 this month so I’m not sure I have the luxury to wait on trying again or if it will happen at all..any other csection moms have kids close together? Any thoughts or advice would be nice also..

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If it’s something you really want then go for it! Life’s too short to wait and you’ll never regret having a 3rd child but you might regret not trying. Good luck to you 🥰

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If I was in your situation I would go for it again.

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I am second oldest out of 4. My eldest bro is 2 yrs older than me and my two younger sisters are 4 and 5 years younger than me. Basically once the older one reached elementary school age, it will be easier because not only they will be away most of the time, they will also help, like tons. I used to help make milk, prepare dinner and do small stuff around the house, (can’t say the same for my bro tho 🤣) and basically my mom just focused on the littles. I agree sometimes as the older one, I feel like I miss out a lot on the cuddling department tho..

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I am so torn on this too. I haven’t had difficulties conceiving so definitely not same situation. I’m totally unsure if I want a 3rd - 2 kids is soo much work. The weekends are WAY more exhausting than the work weeks caring for two kids, constantly lugging infant in car seat chasing my 4 YO. I feel like if I added another to the mix, we’d never leave the house and my older two would miss out on so much. I already have a hard time keeping up because I’m juggling the two. 
But will I regret it later in life when they’re more independent?

Maybe try for baby 3?

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