just here to remind you that saying something like “eat a hamburger” is just as bad as saying “go on a diet”. you don’t know what people are going through and what there circumstances are. me for example, i’ve struggled with anorexia for a few years and whenever someone says something like that or points out how much my hips stick out, it’s extremely damaging and detrimental to my recovery. so don’t do it, especially to a person you don’t know.