Having trouble finishing

I’ve never had trouble in the bedroom finishing but this new guy is having a hard time. The main reason - he makes me too loud.

I feel like I’m too busy making noise that part of what helps me reach climax is getting your blood pressure raised and part of how I get there is holding my breath slightly. Is this crazy? Does anyone have any suggestions or similar experiences??

Btw I’m not complaining - he’s fantastic. I just can’t finish when I’m busy appreciating him vocally.