Toxic

Has anyone been in a toxic relationship you have kids together but you just can't get along... both of you want to work it out you want to be a family but you just can't seem to get right with each other. Has anyone ever been to counseling or anything like that and got your relationship back on track... because at this point I'm scared to death because I don't want to lose my family neither does he but we cant continue this way for our sanity and safety of each other and the all around well being of our kids. This sounds stupid bc if you want something you'll do what you have to do to get it right.... so for me it's like communication and respect are the biggest issues is sitting down speaking with another person going to help... I'm going to try it but I have to wait until Insurance kicks in in Jan 2020 and I just don't want the holidays to be miserable for my family. Lmk yall