Stealthing in a relationship?

I just had my daughter 2 months ago. Everything’s great. I’m a SAHM and it’s been rough but we finally have a schedule and she’s sleeping better (not I tho😂) my fiancé is amazing we’ve never had a problem in our relationship. Hard worker, sweet, treats me like a queen blah blah long story short he’s not a piece of shit. Anyway during pregnancy I didn’t want to have sex I was big and uncomfortable but I did it anyways. Before getting pregnant we had unprotected sex daily. My chances of getting pregnant were slim due to pcos but 2 years later here we are with our baby girl. So when I got cleared for sex (a week ago) I was so excited to have sex again since I haven’t had enjoyable sex in a good 4-5 months. We finally did it and he whined LITERALLY WHINED about having to wear a condom like a damn child. As if me giving birth a few weeks ago wasn’t enough to want to keep his sperm out of my baby maker. So to appease him I’d get on top and we’d have sex unprotected for a couple strokes just to get him excited. Now I’ve told him we won’t be having complete sex without a condom for fear of another baby so soon. I’ve told him multiple times. After that he’d always try to stick it in raw (I should have never allowed it from the beginning so I feel to blame here) and I stopped it then as well. Last night my daughter slept GOOD GOOD probably 3 hours in a row so we took the chance to get it on. It was amazing best sex we’ve had so far. After my first orgasm he lays me down and sticks it back in (all doggy style so I couldn’t see what was going on back there) a few minutes later I feel jizz spray all over my back. I froze and balled. He had on a condom when we started. When he saw I was upset he says “I thought you heard the snap of it coming off” WHY THE FUCK WOULD I WANT YOU TO WEAR A CONDOM FOR THE BEGINNING OF SEX AND NOT THE ENDIN! I was so pissed still am! How could he respect me so little all because he wants his dick wet? I cannot stand him right now. He got a piece of my mind this morning and we will no longer be having sex for the foreseeable future. Has anyone else been through this. Or is my fiancé just a fucking dirtbag?