Any natural hair black girls on here?

Me

Hey y’all I’m pretty sure I have 4a/4b hair. I’ve been going back and forth between both Carols daughter and shea moisture. I also use an aloe Vera leaf when for after I wash my hair and put that on with my conditioner. I’ve been wanting to try a wash and go but have trouble with the front of my hair looking crazy and my my hair getting really frizzy. What products are best to use to help define my curls and help my hair not be so frizzy?