Okay so currently we are living with his parents and his 40 year old something cousin, his sister and her SO live right next door. We have our soon to be 11 months old daughter and I am personally had it beyond past my head am over living here. I had a tub of ice cream with my name on it was eaten and not scooped out and put in the bowl they ate it out of the tub so I had to throw away my ice cream because they are not my blood and thats just gross! They tell me how to parent which pisses me off because I’ve been through this with my nephew I know the drill. To the point where they are saying me and my SO were not being good parents because we didnt want to throw a big party because his side of the family and my side can not get along and we don’t want the drama. Granted what started the feud was that his parents told my parents they wouldn’t let me move in until I graduate and that even then they would push the two of us to get our own place. They completely went back on their word and knowing what I have gone through now really wishes me and my SO would have found our own place. My parents have cut off all ties with them and they don’t talk bad about them they just dropped it, whereas his family are always making comments about my family and I do not want to be here anymore because I am sick of having to be respectful because i am under their roof. His mother also wakes our daughter up and takes her out of her room, if I am putting our daughter to bed she comes in and wounds her up and then takes her out, and when I come home with our daughter and she’s sleeping she tries taking her from me and is constantly saying let me see my baby! We get our own food and its eaten by his cousin. Who creeps me out he bought a whole pack of multi colored tooth brushes the same brand as mine and grabbed the exact same color as my toothbrush which is just gross so I bought myself a new toothbrush. He also is way over interested in our daughter and I no longer feel comfortable with her around him. And there is just always drama going around in that family, my SO father may seem sweet but he talks behinds everyones back and I have a lack in respect and trust in him. My SO wants to stay here until we are done with college but I had to drop my classes this semester because they always have it extremely loud in the house and I could never have quiet time to study. I got us set up with a program for housing and stuff that helps you pay rent and so on so that by February we can be moving out of here. I am not comfortable living here and he would not be comfortable living with my family and so having our own place seems like the best option.