What would you do?

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My boyfriend has asked if he can take pics of me before, I’ve said no. (Inappropriate pics btw). I definitely don’t want anyone having pictures of me. Nothing lasts forever. You never know what can happen and I definitely don’t want him posting those pics or sharing them with his friends/other people during our relationship/if we were to break up.Sorry but I’m not okay with that. I never will be. I told him this. 
Last night I was we were doing stuff, he pulls out his phone and tried taking a picture of me. Now that literally killed the mood and made me get real bad vibes...I didn’t even want to be there...I wanted to go home. He had the audacity to just say “I put it away, keep going” like wtf.. That’s literally not okay dude. Now I definitely don’t trust you nor do I want to do anything w/ you. 
What would you do? I like him but if you can’t respect my decision and what I want then bye...that literally crossed the line dude...I felt so bad yesterday (not for him or anything like that) but just my mood was bad and now I don’t feel good vibes around him, honestly kind of think he’ll hurt me or take pictures while I’m asleep..
Would you break up? Talk about it? Give him another chance? What would you do, give me your opinion on this
~would like to remain anonymous so I won’t be replying to comments
I’m 18 btw

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I would personally break up with him. You’ve said no before and he didn’t respect that. So he doesn’t respect you.
Don’t feel bad at all, you did nothing wrong

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I would have dumped him on the spot and collected my things. That is a huge, disrespecting you in that way is horrible. You will find someone better but drop that trash.

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I would drop him. Always trust your intuition.

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If he’s really taken that far, I wouldn’t trust him to take a step back. He is well aware that you are uncomfortable with what he wants to do, yet he’s proceeding to violate your privacy and make attempts to take inappropriate pictures of you. Continuing your relationship will only make it go downhill from there, and being with someone like that can’t end well, so you’re better off ending it now. If you don’t break up, he’s not going to stop as he’s already expressed very clearly. He’s waiting for you to cave, and you can’t let that happen. I’d definitely break up soon.

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It feels like you kinda expect it to end at some point with “nothing lasts forever”. Like you already have one foot out. 
That being said, you told him you were uncomfortable with it and that’s that. If he can’t respect your wishes (especially with something as simple as “don’t take pictures of me”) then I’d say it’s time to leave him.

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You’ve already told him that it crossed a line and he still attempted to do it. I would break it off especially if you’re continually getting a bad vibe from him. There are other people in the world who actually respect boundaries.

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If he cant respect your right to choose not to be photographed and then respect your feelings of not wanting to continue, then I dont know how I would trust a person like that.

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Definitely break it all of gurl if he can't respect your decision cut him off immediately it seems like he is using you for pictures try to figure out if he made a bet or a promise that he can get in your pants because if so he probably needs a pic to prove it. Wish you the best of luck.

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I would break up. This would have crossed a line for me - it’s not a mistake, he knew what he was doing and thought he could get away with it. This would be such a violation!!

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