I’ve recently learned that my husbands sexual needs are not being met by me. He’s extremely kinky, which he’s been hiding from me our entire marriage, afraid of what I would think, and “fulfilling” himself otherwise. That’s a whole other story. If we work that out-I desperately want to make him happy. I’m just more of a vanilla person, I guess. But I want to explore what he likes. Has anyone else been here? What’s your experience?