I really don’t like the engagement ring my fiancé gave me. I know i should be so happy that he even gave me one in the 1st place. It’s a beautiful ring but it’s not my style and frankly I was disappointed. I think I might actually hate all the side designs. It’s so busy and not symmetrical. I feel like it takes away from the beautiful oval diamond and will be hideous when I add a wedding band. What am I even supposed to pair it with?

I sent multiple hints (sent him pictures and links) of the rings I liked (slim and simple band with oval diamond) and he went for something way different. He said he chose the ring I deserve (more expensive and fancy) I feel like an ungrateful monster. I wish I liked it. Instead of looking at it and being excited I just see something that’s totally not my style.

I don’t need diamonds I would have said yes if he gave me a ringpop. I’m not a materialistic person or a jewelry wearer. The point is he spent a lot of money and I wish he would have spent it on something I would be excited to wear everyday. I don’t want something I’ll eventually put in a drawer.