Startled baby


This may be a bit weird but I’m a ftm and the past 3 days I accidentally startled my 3 month old when I fed Him. He usually eats and slowly falls asleep and my annoying husband will ask something from the other room and when I respond even with the softest voice my LO jumps frantically, as well as hysterically and inconsolably cries for like 4 minutes. It breaks my heart. It just happened again so I got up and flipped out on my husband to not ask me anything while I’m feeding. Does this happen to anyone else? Will my baby be okay? I’m abs ridiculous i know but I’m scared I’m messing up his nervous system by making him scared and cry.