Baby shower? Went to plan?

Hey girls, so my mother, mother in law and sister in law are the ones hosting my baby shower. They told me to pick out the general date. We always celebrate baby showers at about 36 weeks, a month before baby is due. My issue is I have an emergant cerclage and I get my stitches taken out at 36 weeks. So my question is, when would be the best time?