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I have a 30 day cycle dont know when I ovulate for sure ttc #4 been trying since August, currently on cd 3. Fertile week starts december 2 to 9.. but I am trying to go well over so like dec 1 to 12.. .. I am trying to dtd every secound day.. however hubby gets stressed and we dont end up doing it all that much.. I do get in two or three times before my fertile week stops. However I guess I just miss it.. in august i started on day 31, October was day 35 ,and november was day 30.

So any help will be very appreciated. And tips,

I'm gonna start drinking raspberry leaf tea tomorrow. To see if that helps any...