Tell me what you’d do if your husband said this to another woman.

A little back story me and my husband have been together 7 years first few years were off and on and we have been married over 2 years we have 2 boys and a daughter on the way. I have 3 other boys from pervious relationships. Anyways my husband works at Wendy’s and had worked with this girl named Sam mind you she has a bf. one day a few months back I picked him up and he was sitting with her outside smoking in my opinion it looked too close and I had an instinctive feeling she found him attractive and that he found her attractive which is whatever as long as you don’t act on it. So she ends up becoming a manager and moves to another store and my husbands a manager. Coincidence she lives about 2 minutes down the road from us. Anyway he gets off work and uses my phone to text her for smokes. His phone isn’t working at the moment. So here are screen shots of the convo

Then here is my text to my husband

We haven’t had sex in a long time because I don’t feel emotionally connected to him and he never tries to touch me I’m at my heaviest and feel like thee ugliest whale. Should I write it off or say more or anything to the girl?

Thanks to everyone who commented whether it was a supportive comment or just putting me down 🙄 I’ve never heard this term in my life and now I know what it means.