Need advice

So I’ve been seeing this guy for 3 months now. We established that we were gonna be exclusive and that we weren’t gonna see other ppl. He brought up about being in an “official relationship”. it’s hard to find a time to hangout cuz I go to college but he works day but sometimes graveyard shifts. He said he’s not the type to hold hands or kiss in public.. but I kinda want that. I want to feel loved. And he doesn’t show that. not once has he taken me out. The only time we hangout is when he’s off work which is at midnight so we end up having sex everytime. At each others places. What kinda bothered me was that he said we should watch “doctor sleep” before it even came out. I haven’t watch the shining so we didn’t go. earlier today he told me he went to go watch it.. but he could’ve texted me to remind me to watch the shining ahead or let me know ahead in advance. But he didn’t care enough to even do that. Should I be hurt by this or am I overthinking? And what do you think about the whole relationship? I’ve discussed this with him before and he says we are officially dating and that we’re not fwb. But that’s what it feels like and he denies it.