Just venting I guess -bf and his friends

I saw that one of my boyfriends work friends sent him a picture of a model with her boobs out of her robe. His group of friends have a group chat yet this was sent directly to him.

You may think I’m overreacting but, when me and my bf first got together he had a bad porn addiction that caused him to get soft during sex, not want sex hardly ever, talk about sexy women in public, and tell me he wished I had a bigger ass or wish I could twerk or this and that, and he hid a secret phone just for porn. It took a year for him to get over his addiction and for me to bring my self esteem up. Now two years later we have a very lovely relationship. But these friends of his are kind of new (since the beginning of the year) and I have never met them. He told me it isn’t important for me to meet them (and I don’t really care if I meet them or not I was trusting they were good guys). But he talks to them all the time and will even answer the phone for one of them if they call even during dinner. We’re not in our young 20s anymore. Neither are his friends who also have girlfriends and wives. I talked to my boyfriend about this and at first he lied and said the picture was a joke, but couldn’t think of anything to tell me for what the joke was. I explained it’s very disrespectful and to tell them you don’t want to receive those pictures anymore. It hurts me that there may have been a lot of pictures like this sent to him (he deletes his messages often but I never thought anything bad about it till now). Or he may talk about women sexually with his friends.

That’s what it seems like has gone on. I told him if you found a picture of a male like this on my phone, that one of my girlfriends sent me, you’d freak out and not like my friend anymore and be talking about it for the next 50 years (he laughed and nodded because it’s so true).

I don’t want him to get his addiction back. I’m going to try to forget about this, but it’s hard to.