Should I leave him?

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My husband (27) and I (24) have been together 6 years. We have come very far in our relationship, from working at McDonald’s living with his father to now him being a Correctional Officer (brings home about $4300) and owning our own home. 
I was there while he went to school, supported him through the academy, etc. 
now lately I’m at a loss for what I want to do in life. I currently work as registration in the emergency room bringing home $1800-1900 a month. I feel so stuck and don’t feel like I’ll ever make more money than that and that I’m not going to go any where in life. 
Also I can’t even give my husband one of the biggest things he wants in life, a child. 
I have been thinking a lot about leaving him and left him find the life he deserves. He is truly an amazing man and I love him so much, just hate seeing him with someone like me..

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I am sure your husband loves you very much and money/salary doesn’t change his feelings towards you. Maybe you should speak to him about having a baby and discuss together what is best for you both and your options. I am willing to bet the last thing he would want to lose is you his wife. Good luck x

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Omg love, no. Stop thinking this negative about yourself. 
You cannot bring yourself down that way, he loves you. Has he ever given you a reason that he does not want to be with you?
The correctional job he worked for, was not just for him, it was for the BOTH of you. 
You cannot just leave him without talking to him, truly speak to him and ask him if he’s happy, ask if having no children will result in resentment. If you don’t mind me asking, Why do you say you cannot have children? Because you have been medically told that you cannot?
You are worth more than a 2,000k job a month, don’t ever think other wise. The fact you even have a job is amazing, so many people dodge employment, because they want to be taken care of.  Trust me, my sister in law has been letting people take care of her for over 8 years, a healthy 28 year old at that. 
Know your worth, research other opportunities, research what YOU are good at. If there is no kids, work for a better career, you have to work in this life and you are still young. I started a pet sitting company at your age because I was at my wits end. It’s never too late, or too early to try something that you love and want to see succeed. 
It is never overnight, but know you are not a failure as long as you work for you, for your loved ones and for a better future. 
Anxiety is a nightmare, I suffer from it, perhaps going to speak to a doctor regarding your feelings. Sometimes it stems from a deeper. My anxiety has crippled me in the past.
Just know there is always help for people who understand overthinking, intrusive thoughts, self hate, and so many more emotions.

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My husband works , in a stay at home wife and unfortunately after 3 losses I learned I can not carry to full term. So we need a surrogate. This shouldn’t change the mind of someone if they love you. 
I’m sorry you’re having a hard time but coming here asking strangers if you should leave your husband isn’t there right thing. We don’t know your life well enough. No one can make that choice but you. 
I’d suggest talking to him , maybe seeing a therapist or a couple counselor. I hope things get better.

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Go to school do nursing  you can find a passion while ur with him. U dont need to leave him to go somewhere in life

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Seems like y’all have a pretty fabulous life and make decent money. If all else fails y’all can adopt.

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You are an amazing wife! And I bet you are doing more than you think, it’s crazy hard to feel like you are holding someone back or like you can’t help them with there dreams. But honey I bet if you talked to him he’d tell you that you are crazy for thinking any of that matters. Just from reading your post I can see that you are a loving, caring women with a big heart. Don’t leave, stay, talk thing out with him. And you’ll see how he sees you and how much he loved you!

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Why do u care about money ? Even  If u lose a job or u can’t work anymore then he  should be the one who should support u and take care of you because he is ur husband. U feeling like this Because u can’t give him a child? He love you for who you are not because of money or u can have child or not . I know my husband 8 years Hey I make almost 2000 like you do and my husband make 5 times what I make but I never let him make me feel like that way or I feel like this  because I feel like man should be the one who need to take care of the house and wife and even I don’t make a lot I don’t care because i have my husband so please don’t make ur self negative , be strong and have confident ! Just love ur husband a lot and give him lots love and kisses because ur  love makes ur husband feel stronger and make ur relationship more sparkle

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Hey love. I know it’s easy to think very negatively and let life feel like it’s caving in. BUT try and flip all those negative thoughts and find ONE good thing about each of them. For instance, you make $1800 a month which is amazing!! Look at you. Starting at McDonald’s and now look at you. Also, there are raises and advancements so don’t worry about that. What you’re making now is probably the lowest amount you’ll make for the rest of your life, it’ll only go up! He loves YOU! He’s with YOU. Own that!!!! If he wasn’t happy or felt you couldn’t or didn’t give him what he wants in life, I’m sure he’d tell you. Just enjoy the moment and go day by day. Be proud of yourself for what you have accomplished so far and keep looking forward to all that you will accomplish in the future

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